I was chatting with a mentor from the chinese media, telling him being a Chinese from a traditional family is tough because there are many things you have to think about, worry about and limitation in decision that may not please your parents which they think would hurt them. He told me this:
細心看父母的皺紋
摸他們的手掌
看他們睡覺
天下就沒有甚麼事解決不到的
只要學會諒解
一切戾氣化祥和
我跟你說了用心去感覺
一張飯桌
三代共用
愛情可以瘋狂可以不顧一切
婚姻需要 管理和祝福
過去不擔，今日自在，未來不知
心想: 难道不能两全其美 吗? 世人都把简单看得复杂。再不就是将简单搞得复杂。 人。。。好难平衡。
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妈妈说: 女儿呀, 你可千万不要把爱情当面包吃! 下去的路, 还有柴米油盐的问题要解决的!
女儿说: 我们两人是真心相爱的…他对我是真的…你们不要一竿子打倒一船人!
爸爸说: 女儿呀, 情人眼里出西施. 老爸吃的米比你多, 出来社会打滚的, 有多少是真的?,有多少是逢场作戏的呀? 你要记住: “一失足成千古恨,再回头已是百年身”了!
男人说: 最让男人受不了的是妻子的唠叨, 情人的眼淚, 紅顏知己的誤解。妻子的唠叨使男人的心乱上加乱，情人的眼淚让男人已硬的心变得酥軟，紅顏红知己的誤解把男人的心由懸崖推进深谷。最好的妻子, 就是男人能從她身上找到情人和紅顏知己兩种相互交織的感觉, 只是這种感觉男人很難找到. 最好的情人是在你和她的关系被妻子发现而主动退出又不提任何要求，只是情人很难做到這点. 最好的紅顏知己是有一天她能成為情人甚至妻子，只是這种想法很难实現. 如果有可能，男人都在想把紅顏知己变成情人，如果再有可能，再把她变成妻子. 只是变成妻子的紅顏知己就不再是知己了. 男人天下乌鸦一般黑!:)
Life before marriage is HOTLINK
" You can express yourself ".
During honeymoon is TMTOUCH
" Always get in Touch ".
After Honeymoon is MAXIS
" Wherever you go your wife network follows".
After one year Life is DIGI
" Your wife can change your life ".
After 10 years Life is CELCOM
" Subscriber is not reachable "?????????
you are so right... hahaha
I believe there is some exception? =)
看來你對愛情沒有信心
也許你還沒有心理準備吧
用心經營,多點包容
才看得出未來的道路
當然這是雙方面的,若你找到了
你就不會想到這一些了
What I am trying to project is this: Falling is love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.
To me, life is like a puzzle. Each puzzle makes up a complete picture of life. We all are searching for life puzzles. Piece by piece…. in different shape and color which signify memories we would have and the path we are walking through.
Each piece is important. Because each pieces happens for a reason.
We can’t remedy the past. But we can move forward to create a better future. Everyone has a puzzle to complete. It takes time to look for each piece to complete the puzzle. How the end is not completely important. The journey of finding the pieces counts more. And don’t ask which is more important because they are all important. Agree?..:) Let's cheers!:)
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